The decade coming to an end prompts some necessary reflection.
This last year has been momentous for me. I moved interstate, out of home, and started my first job. I knew that all these changes would cause chaos in my life. I had to embrace this chaos, hoping that eventually my life would start to feel real and mine.
It took about six months.
I found my feet in Canberra, in my job, and began a relationship with the love of my life. I finally had some control over my life and my health.
After this transitory period, I discovered that my sense of self had settled into something whole. I am grateful everyday for the life I have and I am the happiest I have ever been. For someone who has always dreamed of having her own place, her independence, and humble comforts, this year proved to me that dreams do come true.
I had unnecessarily worried last year that this transformation would change me into something completely new. That maybe I would lose my unending passion for reading.
Earlier this year it certainly seemed like that. I just wasn’t reading. When I finished work, I either wanted to socialise or play games. The idea of picking up a book seemed faraway from me.
But this is what change does. It causes instability. Once I established stability, in my life and of myself, I found my passion renewed.
I started to read again. Like old me. Reading books like I’m running out of time. It didn’t take long for me to realise that I could read even more now that university wasn’t plaguing my every waking moment.
In the past 7 years, I have always read more than 100 books in a year. Originally I had set my goal this year for 70 books, trying to account for the inevitable impact of all this monumental change.
Now as the year closes, I have surpassed that modest goal by more than 3 times. In fact I read 70 books just in December!
Not only is reading my passion but it’s my priority. Outside of work, I read. I’ve finally concluded that I will never get to all those tv shows and movies because I will always want to read instead. I have cemented myself as a reader and this conclusion feels natural and stable.
I have everything I’ve ever wanted. An apartment for my books, a job that pays for my home, books and bills, a partner that loves and supports me, and, finally, the energy to enjoy it all.
This is my life and I couldn’t be happier for it. 2020 is going to be a magical year for love, life and so so many books.